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cross out the things you’ve done.

Graduated high school| Kissed someone.| Collected something really stupid. | Smoked a cigarette.| Got so drunk you passed out. Rode every ride at an amusement park. | Gone to a rock concert. | Helped someone.| Gone fishing. | Watched four movies in one night.  Gone long periods of time without sleep. | Lied to someone. | Snorted cocaine. | Failed a class. | Smoked weed. | Dealt drugs. | Been in a car accident. | Been in a tornado. | Been to a funeral. | Burned yourself. | Ran a marathon. | Cried yourself to sleep.| Spent over $200 in one day. | Flown on a plane. | Cheated on someone. | Been cheated on. | Written a 10 page letter. | Gone skiing. | Been sailing. | Had a best friend. | Lost someone you loved. | Shoplifted something. | Been to jail. | Dangerously close to being in jail. | Skipped school. | Had detention. | Got in trouble for something you didn’t do. | Stolen books from the library. Gone to a different country. | Dropped out of school. | Watched the “Harry Potter” movies. | Had an online diary. | Had a yard sale. | Had a lemonade stand. | Actually made money at the lemonade stand. | Been in a school play. | Been fired from a job. | Swam with dolphins. | Taken a lie detector test. | Voted for someone on a reality TV show. | Written poetry. | Read more than 20 books a year. | Gone to Europe. | Loved someone you shouldn’t have. | Used a coloring book over age 12. | Had surgery. | Had stitches. | Taken a taxi. | Seen the Washington Monument. | Had more than 5 IM’s/online conversations going at once. | Overdosed. | Been in a fist fight. | Gone surfing in California. | Had a hamster/guinea pig. | Pet a wild animal. | Used a credit card. | Did “spirit day” at school. | Dyed your hair. | Got a tattoo. | Got straight A’s. | Been on the Honor Roll. | Know someone with HIV or AIDS. | Made out with someone. | Played on a sports team. | Snuck out of the house. | Swore at a teacher. | Gone laser tagging. | Had a romantic relationship| Been on the TV. | French braided. | Skinny-dipped. | Driven a car. | Performed in front of an audience. | Gone bungee-jumping. | Been to Mexico. | Crashed a car. | Sky dived. | Been kissed in the rain. | Made an 11:11 wish. | Drank alcohol. | Forwarded a chain letter. | Made a mistake.

(Source: larryishellacute, via ohhiddles-myhiddles)

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Anonymous asked: in regards to that post talking about size not determining ones health, are you healthy then? does your doctor say so?

I have certain health issues but they are not caused by my weight.  They are (for the most part) genetic and I would have them even if I was a size two. 

I also had most of these health problems when I was a size 7 at the age of 13.  I also nearly died.

I’m glad you asked what my doctor says, because several of my doctors (yes, I have several) have noted the following:

I have textbook-perfect cholesterol (always have) despite a huge family history of heart problems (my dad had a triple bypass in his early 40s, had every cardiac problem in the book, and died from what we’re pretty sure was one of the aneurisms in his aorta blowing out.  He was also an alcoholic and smoked two packs a day from the age of 13).

My most recent A1C level is, in the words of my endo, “better than the A1C levels of people who have no blood sugar problems whatsoever.”  No, I did not change my exercise program, and the only change I made was switching out the sugar in my iced tea and using stevia instead.

I’m also healthier in general than many of my thin relatives, there is alcoholism and rampant tobacco use on both sides of my family (both of which I avoid).

If you’d like more information on fat =/= unhealthy, I’d suggest you start with this New York Times article on the obesity paradox.

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Anonymous asked: I'm sad because Tom's cock would never fit in my mouth :( He was blessed but for fucking not sucking....unless he doesn't mind cock head action only.



Relax the throat. There’s no such thing as too big to suck…

Lie on your back, head over the side of the mattress. This angle helps you avoid your gag reflex.

Wonder how many followers I’ll lose over this???

It can also allow him to take over the pace.  If you’re into being face-fucked. :)

As a person with a tiny mouth (seriously, I’ve had dentists and doctors remark on it) who has had to find additional ways to please while giving head (there was one special guy who liked a tiny bit of teeth action but like I said he was…special), I would like to point out that while deep-throating is nice, there are other things you can do as well.

-starting at the base (you may need to tilt your head), run your lips along the corpus spongiosum (the ridge along the bottom of the penis) applying gentle sucking pressure as you go, then when you get to the end and reach the frenulum, give it extra sucking attention, sometimes rolling it gently between your lips.  But be careful and time it correctly - the frenulum the most sensitive area of the penis and you can overdo it and hurt the guy if you’re not careful or if he’s not aroused enough.  (Kind of like women and direct attention to the clitoris.)

-run your tongue around and under the ridge of the glans

-dip the end of your tongue very slightly into the end of his urethra.  You can also play with the urethra with your fingers while your lips are on the shaft.

-use your hands to give stimulation to the shaft while moving just the glans into and out of your mouth (using gentle pressure with your lips as they move over the glans ridge on the out stroke)

-don’t forget to give the balls some love, too.

Ladies, any other BJ tips?  Come on, I know there are more. :)

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I think we should do a slore version of the accent challenge…



where instead of “aunt, route, theater” we say dirty words, and instead of a passage from a book, we read a very hot section from a smutty fan fic.  

Just a suggestion…

Tagging because this would be so fun, right smittentomkitten, ophelia-tagloff, nerdynauticalgirl, nerdysingingcatlady and a whole shit ton of other slores I can’t recall right now??  Please tag on!

Ok… virtualgirlfriendsan.. you write the challenge and we will do it. Tag me when you’re ready.

I’m in!!!!!  Please tag me as well. :)

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I’ve said it before, but apparently it needs to be said again.

Despite what you may have been told by the industries/individuals who make a profit off of/have a vested interest in you thinking this way:

Being fat does not automatically make you unhealthy.

Being skinny/thin does not automatically make you healthy.

It’s a number on the scale.  That’s it.

It doesn’t tell you anything about a person’s health.  It doesn’t tell you anything about their eating and exercise habits (common misconceptions to the contrary), doesn’t tell you anything about their mental state, or their intelligence, or anything about their life other than the amount they weigh.  That’s it.

And if I see one more post about how fat=unhealthy so help me gods I will go Credible Hulk all over your asses.

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During the month of September 2014, our house in Tennessee became the base camp for Tom Hiddleston’s steady transformation into Hank Williams. I’d been hired by a film company—-whose vision of shining a gritty light on the life and times of Hank Williams piqued my interest no end—-to produce the music and assist their leading man in finding his way into the heart of one of the greatest singer-songwriters of all time.

The classically trained British actor arrived in Nashville on the fourth day of the month and the very next day climbed on a tour bus bound for Michigan and the Wheatland Music Festival, his traveling companions Claudia, myself, and a four-piece band consisting of Jerry Roe, Byron House, Pat Buchannan and Steve Fishell. Just minutes before taking part in an afternoon workshop with Sarah Jarosz, whose permission I had sought first, I asked Tom if he’d like to join us onstage and sing “I’m So Lonesome I Could Cry,” a Hank Williams song I’d heard him practicing on the bus. I was surprised when he said yes and skillfully performed the tune before what must have been 1500 people. Later that night, with my band on the main stage, and with very little urging from me, he rendered a joyful version of “Move It On Over.” Afterward, brimming with delight, he admitted, rather boyishly, that he’d never in his life performed with a band and had loved it.

On a typical day in September, I watched him sit for a wardrobe fitting, read through four hours worth of key scenes with the director and leading lady, spend another two hours with a dialect coach, and then, in order to lose the weight needed to look Hank Williams gaunt on screen, run seven wicked miles over hilly Tennessee terrain. With those chores done, he’d then commit to six more hours of singing, over and over again, a very hard to master song like ”Lovesick Blues.” And then, when he finally unlocked the mystery of yodeling the blues, hillbilly style, and was treated to a playback of his performance responded by saying “I can do it better, let me go again.” Then came a late dinner, wolfed down before giving in to a few hours sleep. After nearly a month spent collaborating with this gifted artist, I’m as respectful of the man’s work ethic as I’m mystified by his transformational skills. Without a doubt, the filmmakers chose the right actor for the job.

And, incidentally, having Ry Cooder as a duet partner on “God I’m Missing You” on the Americana Music Awards Show was pretty damned mystical as well.

Rodney (x)


The man. RT. “@RodneyJCrowell: pic.twitter.com/Kjcwm6YFSL

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